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PMA for Today: A shoutout to friends in the Boston Burlesque Scene

7/23/2014

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Last week I experienced some bullshit! Someone said something shitty about my body. To put the rotten cherry on my shit sundae I experienced a bunch of awful street harassment. Those experiences were putting me in a bad place mentally.  But seriously, fuck that!  I decided to count some blessings:

1)  Mary Widow once told me how she saw me through a  window as I was walking by, and was like "Those are some Ginny Nightshade thighs!" Like that is some kind of superpower. I love it. 

Sometimes my life is so full of support and positivity I almost forget that I often exist in a space where people feel like it's necessary to put me down by commenting on my body. 

When someone says something awful to me, objectifying me, making me feel like I am less than; I flash to the memory, of  my "Ginny Nightshade thighs," and thank my lucky stars that I'm surrounded by so much body positivity and so many amazing, strong, women! 

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Mary Widow and me at Punk Rockin' & Pastie Poppin'
PictureAllix mortis as my zombie boyfriend *swoon*
2) Allix Mortis and I had a Gchat conversation about someone who, at a show, told me they found it inspiring to watch me perform because of my body type, specifically my belly:
(this is a chat conversation- hence the weird spacing etc.)

"Being called inspiring is important because it means that you're helping someone break out of their shell, but you're also helping them get over and reprogram all those things they've been told and socialized to think about bodies- Their own, other women's - it's a small step, but it's pretty revolutionary when you think about it."  

3) Last week I was having a panic attack about an event that I'm planning. I cried about sandwiches. That is a thing that actually happened and that is nuts! Sandwiches are happiness! After Slaughterhouse Sweethearts rehearsal I vented to Belle Gunz and Fem Bones who not only rallied around me, but also offered to help me plan. They both looked at me and said "Um. Duh, of course we will help!" and I just about exploded with happiness/relief/love for sandwiches. 


I'm such a lucky, super-thighed, friend-filled, lady! #bellypower 
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The Slaughterhouse Sweethearts posing at The Alternatease fundraiser
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